things that might help
This page is a living collection of resources offered with care. Whether you're in crisis, in need of reflection, or just looking for something to accompany your process, I hope you find something here that supports you.
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DOWNLOADABLE GUIDES ● READING LISTS ● CRISIS & SUPPORT LINES
suggested reads
A curated reading list for reflection, healing, and self-inquiry
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The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts – Resmaa Menakem
What My Bones Know – Stephanie Foo
Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors – Janina Fisher
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It's Not Always Depression – Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Self-Compassion – Kristin Neff
Radical Acceptance – Tara Brach
The Places That Scare You – Pema Chödrön
No Bad Parts – Richard Schwartz
The Gifts of Imperfection – Brené Brown
Daring Greatly – Brené Brown
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents – Lindsay C. Gibson
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Anam Cara – John O'Donohue
Women Who Run with the Wolves – Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Letters to a Young Poet – Rainer Maria Rilke
Man's Search for Meaning – Viktor Frankl
Staring at the Sun – Irvin D. Yalom
The Book of Disquiet – Fernando Pessoa
The Death of Ivan Ilyich – Leo Tolstoy
The Little Prince – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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All About Love – bell hooks
The Art of Loving – Erich Fromm
Nonviolent Communication – Marshall Rosenberg
Hold Me Tight – Sue Johnson
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The Wild Edge of Sorrow – Francis Weller
The Year of Magical Thinking – Joan Didion
A Grief Observed – C. S. Lewis
The Grieving Brain – Mary-Frances O'Connor
It's OK That You're Not OK – Megan Devine
Bearing the Unbearable – Joanne Cacciatore
The Wild Iris – Louise Glück
When Things Fall Apart – Pema Chödrön
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The Artist's Way – Julia Cameron
The Courage to Create – Rollo May
Free Play – Stephen Nachmanovitch
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The Science and Art of Dreaming – Mark Blagrove & Julia Lockheart
The Spirituality of Dreaming – Kelly Bulkeley
Man and His Symbols – Carl Jung
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Escape from Freedom – Erich Fromm
Regarding the Pain of Others – Susan Sontag
The Wretched of the Earth – Frantz Fanon
Pedagogy of the Oppressed – Paulo Freire
Orientalism – Edward Said
In the Name of Identity – Amin Maalouf
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The Year of Magical Thinking – Joan Didion
Out of Place – Edward Said
Teta, Mother and Me – Jean Said Makdisi
I Was Born There, I Was Born Here – Mourid Barghouti
Educated – Tara Westover
My Childhood – Maxim Gorky
crisis & support lines
GENERAL
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Canada-wide, 24/7 support for anyone dealing with thoughts of suicide or worried about someone else. Call or text 988.
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Crisis Text Line provides free, 24/7, text-based mental health support and crisis intervention. Text HOME to 741741.
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24/7 support to those experiencing emotional distress or needing crisis intervention and/or suicide prevention. TDC also provides face-to-face support and counselling to people dealing with the effects of suicide and homicide.
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TRCC provides 24/7 support to survivors of sexual violence, of all genders and identities. Call 416-597-8808.
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24/7 support for seniors in Ontario who have experienced any type of abuse or neglect. Call 1-866-299-1011.
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Trans Lifeline’s Hotline is a peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call (877) 330-6366 (1 - 9 PM EST).
YOUTH & KIDS
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24/7 e-mental health service offering free, multilingual and confidential support to young people. Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.
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Black Youth Helpline serves all youth and specifically responds to the need for a Black youth specific service. Call 1-833-294-8650 (9AM–10PM).
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YouthLine provides Ontario-wide 2SLGBTQ+ peer-support HelpLine. Call 1-800-268-9688 or text 647-694-4275 (4:00 pm - 9:30 pm).
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We Matter is an Indigenous youth-led and nationally registered organization dedicated to Indigenous youth support, hope and life promotion.
BIPOC
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Across Boundaries provides mental health and addiction services for racialized people across the GTA. Languages include African, Central & South Asian languages, and Caribbean Dialects.
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The Hope for Wellness Helpline is available 24/7 to all Indigenous people across Canada. Call 1-855-242-3310.
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Naseeha is a 24/7 confidential mental health helpline offering culturally and spiritually informed support, primarily for Muslims but open to all. Languages include Urdu, Farsi, Arabic, Somali, Turkish, and French. Call 1-866-627-3342.
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24/7 support for Métis individuals. Call 1‑877‑767‑7572.
MEN
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CCMF provides therapy and counselling, peer support, a legal clinic, fathering programs, mentorship, and support services for male victims of trauma and violence.
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HeadsUpGuys offers practical self-care tips, screening tools, self-guided courses, and guidance on how to support the men in our lives.
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Men & provides mental health support, education, and resources for men across Canada through a 24/7 helpline, self-guided tools, and community-based programs that promote emotional well-being, healthy relationships, and violence prevention.
WOMEN
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AWHL is a free, anonymous, and confidential 24-hour telephone and TTY crisis telephone line to all women in the province of Ontario who have experienced any form of abuse. Call 1-866-863-7868.
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Nisa Foundation provides culturally responsive shelters for women of color, Muslim women, immigrants, refugees, and those without status, as well as a confidential helpline and educational programs.
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RIWC is a Toronto-based charity that supports racialized, immigrant, and refugee women through anti-violence, settlement, and employment programs.
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ONSADVTC delivers immediate and long-term trauma-specific medical, forensic, and psychosocial care to survivors of sexual and domestic violence response across Ontario.
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Domestic Shelters offers a searchable shelter directory and educational and healing resources to survivors of domestic violence.
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